Keys To De-Stress

I asked for you to email me questions, things you desired seeing my answers to – and you haven't disappointed. Here's the first that I received:

Desire:
I would really like to hear about whether you like bondage, play rape, forced oral, etc…Whether you have ever fucked a woman with a strap on, or wanted to, whether being slutty is a good thing…your opinion on the cupric flavor of blood, and 1001 ways to destress your favorite guy

Sated:
Let's start at the beginning. I've had some definite experience in the BDS&M world, and was even, for a short time, an apprentice under a genuine DOM mistress. I enjoy most all aspects of sex, and do enjoy playing in that realm. I've always had a desire to delve more deeply into it, but have never found the right person with which to do so. I do enjoy play rape and forced anything, and could be quite the willing sub with the right person.

Though I can't say that I've ever fucked a woman with a strap-on, I have done so to a man. Most men would blanch at the very idea, but those that are open to exploring the world of anal open themselves to an entirely new venue of pleasure. I enjoy the power that comes from bending over my normally strong man and fucking him – it's quite the thrill. One of my more complex moves involves sitting in front of my man and fucking him up the ass with a strap-on while, at the same time, bending over and going down on him. For those in the know, this creates the ultimate orgasm for him. Sadly, few men are open enough to try out the anal thing, so this isn't something I get to do often. As for the other, yes I would like to fuck a woman with a strap-on as well.

Being slutty is a relative term. What one might consider "slutty" another might consider fairly run of the mill. I believe if you're doing what you enjoy, how much ever much you enjoy it, then that is a good thing. I've never had much use for labels one way or another as so many people can define one thing so many different ways.

The cupric flavor of blood, eh? Well, I've been known to have a bit of a blood fetish myself so I'd have to say that I find the taste of blood, cupric or no, rather delectable.

1001, eh? Your confidence in the extent of my bag of tricks is quite appreciated, but would you – for the sake of time and my sanity – accept 45? I knew that you would. Thanks.

Bendis' 45 Ways to De-Stress Her Favorite Guy
(In no particular order)

1. Setting him in front of the TV watching a favorite show or movie (or the computer playing a favorite game) and keeping him supplied with a steady string of cold beers while whipping up a warm supper
2. A good massage all over body massage involving copious amounts of warm oil
3. An even better blow-job
4. Going out to watch the sunset with a glass of wine for each of us
5. Sitting and letting him vent about his day for as long as he needs
6. Dropping my pants and bending over any available furniture and letting him fuck me silly w/out having to worry about getting me off as well
7. Going for a ride, or "spontaneous road trip" to nowhere in particular
8. Surprising him with a weekend away in a posh hotel or secluded bed and breakfast
9. Drawing a hot bubble bath, lighting candles and incense, putting on some smooth jazz and joining him in the tub
10. Cooking his favorite supper when he's not expecting it
11. Taking him out to his favorite restaurant when he's not expecting it
12. Leaving him dirty, little notes in places I know he'll find them
13. Giving him my specialty – the Monroe Massage
14. Letting him go out drinking with his buddies and not getting upset when he comes in late and doesn't call
15. Surprising him at the door wearing some new, sexy lingerie I've picked up
16. Doing housework in the nude
17. Letting him play 12+ hours of games on his computer or Playstation without bugging him for attention
18. Giving him a strip show and lap dance
19. Giving him an unexpected gift – something he's been pining for
20. Doing the things he usually takes care of so he can just relax
21. Renting a bunch of funny movies and cuddling on the couch together to watch them
22. Taking him to the strip club
23. Spending a whole day in bed with him that is nothing but sex, sleep and more sex
24. Sending him pages and leaving messages on his cell telling him how much I want him
25. Doing something with him that I normally hate doing but that he loves
26. Having wine along with some fruit & cheese platters in bed
27. Going and forcing him to take breaks with a blow-job when he's been working too long
28. Putting on a little watch-me-masturbate show for him
29. Taking provocative pictures and leaving them in places I know he'll find while working
30. Sending him flowers – men can get flowers too – with a nasty note telling him what I'm going to do to him when he gets home
31. Sex where he doesn't have to do any of the work and can just lie back and enjoy the ride
32. Having him come home to the kitchen being stocked with his favorite drinks and junk food, and letting him just veg out all weekend
33. Writing him a long, fantasy erotica story involving the two of us and emailing it to him
34. Writing an erotica story detailing our last sexual romp together and leaving it on his desk chair
35. Putting a pair of my panties in his briefcase
36. Taking him out to eat and giving him a hand-job under the table
37. Waiting on him hand and foot all weekend, and doing his bidding (no matter how kinky or perverted)
38. Waking him up with a blow-job or with me already on top of him
39. Surprising him with a new toy I've bought and letting him watch me try it out
40. Serving dinner in just heels and a thong
41. Serving him breakfast in bed – naked
42. Sing him to sleep
43. Meeting up at home for lunch and having a quickie
44. Joining him in the shower early in the morning when he's not expecting it
45. Curling up in his lap while he's watching TV